Debra W. Haffner
Executive director, Religious Institute

Debra W. Haffner

An ordained Unitarian Universalist minister and Executive director of the Religious Institute, a multifaith organization dedicated to sexual health and justice.

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Could this be the pope's Trojan Horse?

Along with other faith leaders who have spent the past thirty years of our lives working to stop the spread of the HIV pandemic, I was pleased to read that Pope Benedict XVI, in a book length interview, said that condom use to prevent the transmission of HIV is "a first step in a movement toward a different way, a more humane sexuality."

I was even more pleased to read that the Vatican this morning clarified that the use of condoms would be justified not just by male sex workers as stated in the new book, but by any man or woman who is infected with HIV. Further, to those who might choose to downplay the significance of this portion of the book, the Vatican itself said,

Benedict XVI's contribution to the long-standing debate on this question is therefore a profound and important clarification. It is an original contribution: on the one hand, it remains faithful to moral principles and demonstrates lucidity in rejecting "faith in condoms" as an illusory path; on the other, it shows a comprehensive and far-sighted vision, attentive to discovering the first small steps - however halting and confused - of an often spiritually and culturally impoverished humanity, towards a more responsible exercise of sexuality.

As a sexologist and a minister, I too believe that people must receive guidance from their religious leaders on making responsible and well-reasoned moral decisions about their sexual health, procreative intentions, and relationships. I too believe that condom education and condom distribution are only a partial answer to the need for sexual health education and services.

But, I also believe that allowing people who are HIV infected to protect their partners by using condoms in sexual relations is only a first tiny step. Surely we can agree that everyone who engages in any type of intercourse with a partner whose serostatus they do not know should protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Life is too precious for it not to be protected because one's HIV status is unknown.

Could this announcement be the pope's Trojan Horse, indicating that future pronouncements on sexuality, conducive to the 21st century world, are forthcoming? It is past time for the Roman Catholic Magisterium to revisit its teachings on contraception, the role of women in its ministry, sexual abuse prevention, family planning to reduce global maternal mortality, and sexual and gender identity and orientation.

Congratulations to the pope for taking this first small step. May it too lead to a giant step of sexual education, health and responsibility for us all.

By Debra W. Haffner  |  November 23, 2010; 1:33 PM ET Save & Share:  Send E-mail   Facebook   Twitter   Digg   Yahoo Buzz   Del.icio.us   StumbleUpon   Technorati  
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Nothing about the settled Catholic doctrines on sexuality was changed by the Pope's remarks, which a) have no doctrinal authority, and b) are in line with previous statements the Church has made.

All he really said was that someone already way off the moral rails might be showing at least some sense of responsibility if he chooses to reduce the risk of spreading disease while spreading his spiritual poison.

That said, I think that some of his past statements (not so much this one, actually), indicate that Pope Benedict may be on the side of those who claim that when someone has HIV, it may at times be moral for them to use condoms within their marriage. That's an issue which has yet to be clearly settled in the Vatican, but some quite orthodox high-level moral theologians have argued that based on existing Church doctrine, that is, in fact, the case.

On a side note, trying to throw women's ordination into this is absurd.

And, the Catholic Church's job is to teach the eternal morality entrusted to it by God, not to conform to the ever changing moral trends of the secular world of any century.

Posted by: mnm619 | December 2, 2010 4:15 PM
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How sad that BUMP and others show such anger and rage at Debra and even Catholicism. Disagreeing with an opinion or the 'rules' of a particular religious orthodoxy is part of our freedom of speech that Americans become accustomed, but the nastiness in the speech says more about the respondent, and takes away any influence the post might have had. Thank you Debra for a hopeful and positive look at this issue.

Posted by: konnie1 | November 25, 2010 10:21 AM
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Thanks for the clarity and insight you have brought to this "sensitive" issue, and the humor you use to help bring the Catholic Church into, if not the 21st, at least the 20th century.

Posted by: charlie_talbert | November 24, 2010 9:31 PM
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Asking a vulgar ignoramus like the authoress to comment on sexual ethics, or on any aspect of Catholic theology, is the height of absurdity.

Posted by: thebump | November 24, 2010 5:04 AM


This rich coming from a supporter of RCC. The whole institution is corrupt to the core. A institution steeped in teh crimes of the Nazis, & Italian Fascists & Spanish Fascusts wouldn't have a clue about ethics or morality. It is evident from teh ways in which they have been protecting their pedophile homosexuals. The RCC morality is if you have to be a Homosexual do it with young children.

Posted by: Secular | November 24, 2010 7:14 PM
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@ THEBUMP - Namecalling? Very mature. And you call Debra vulgar?? ha!

We can only hope that this is a step in the direction of acknowledging the gray areas of sexual morality in Catholic thought, and actually weighing the harm against the good of what the Church currently teaches is the only moral path: abstinence, NFP, or hell.

Posted by: CarlaSue88 | November 24, 2010 5:17 PM
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Asking a vulgar ignoramus like the authoress to comment on sexual ethics, or on any aspect of Catholic theology, is the height of absurdity.

Posted by: thebump | November 24, 2010 5:04 AM
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LOL 'Trojan' I get it.

I don’t see the Pope’s words as progressive at all. He’s essentially just saying ”Why not give the condemned man on the gallows a last cigarette? It can do no more moral harm, and it might just calm him down a bit.”

Posted by: gladerunner | November 23, 2010 2:47 PM
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The Vatican's self-congratulatory statement about how the Pope is doing so well by stepping into the 1980s is risible. I'm not nearly as optimistic as you are that the Pope will finally admit that their teachings about sexuality were not only unrelated to morality but actually dangerous to some.

Posted by: david6 | November 23, 2010 2:30 PM
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