Hands that Help or Lips that Pray
Are social media tools a blessing or a curse for people of faith? Should we use digital technology to commune with the divine? Does God tweet?
I believe that God listens and responds to tweeted prayers as intently and effectually as he does the old-fashioned kind. I also believe that a child at summer camp who faxes a picture to a parent of his or her newly missing tooth, along with a request that it be put under the pillow, will find the fax replaced with the customary remuneration. Maybe more, since the Tooth Fairy is likely to take into account the cost of the fax and the creativity of the faxer.
Even someone who doesn't accept one of the most fundamental scientific advances, the evolution of species, nevertheless accepts the evolution of technology. Yet the issue for me isn't the form of prayer, but prayer itself. I know prayer can bring comfort to the believer engaged, and perhaps that is sufficient reason for it. The same may be said about meditation or, in my case, a nice run on the beach.
But if I try to put myself in the position of a believer, some of whom think everything was determined long before we were born, it seems like heresy (or at least real chutzpah) to ask God for something He hadn't planned on giving (like a missed field goal by an opponent). Doesn't He already know what is best? I just can't picture God hearing my prayer and slapping His forehead (in the image of mine) and saying to Himself (since He doesn't speak to me), "Good point, Herb. I hadn't thought of it in that clever way you put it."
Then there's the question about how God decides when to intervene. Why would God answer a prayer to cure one sick person, but ignore the prayers of millions who died in the Holocaust? Some disillusioned believers never excuse a God who has allowed such tragedies. But if I were appointed God's defense attorney, I would argue that He is not guilty for reasons of nonexistence.
Whether one tweets, leaves notes, or prays openly at the Western Wall, I'm reminded of the story about a Jerusalem journalist, who for several weeks saw the same old Jewish man praying vigorously. Sensing a story, the journalist said to the old man: "You pray at the wall every day. What are you praying for?"
"In the morning, I pray for world peace; in the afternoon, I pray for the brotherhood of man; in the evening, I pray for the eradication of illness and disease from the earth."
"And how long have you been doing this?"
"Every day, for 27 years."
Amazed, the journalist asked how it felt to pray every day for those things. The old man replied, "How does it feel? It feels like I'm talking to a wall!"
Whatever technology you prefer, I counter with the following comment of "the great agnostic," Robert Ingersoll: "The hands that help are better far than the lips that pray."
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Posted by: Navin1 | August 13, 2009 4:45 PM
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Chutzpah, indeed! That's the only word to describe the vanity and folly of one who thinks he can tell the almighty how to run the Universe. As for the existence of said almighty, well, it takes considerable vanity and folly for mankind to create that, as well.
Posted by: pelicanwatchcb | August 13, 2009 4:01 AM
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Herb: I agree completely but if you hope to engage the believers I am afraid you will have to soften the professorial jargon. Honestly, I don't know how to communicate with die-hard believers so I shouldn't be giving you advice. Tom Broome Townsend, Georgia
Posted by: rach226042 | August 12, 2009 9:55 PM
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Hmmm, even the "gibberishing, probability-waving Homeland1" is at a loss for "words" about this twittering and inane topic!!!
Posted by: ccnl1 | August 12, 2009 12:18 PM
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Well said, Herb. Technology can't help us commune with something that isn't there!
Posted by: DAN46 | August 12, 2009 9:15 AM
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Nice Nice Very Nice-A!
Posted by: homeland1 | August 11, 2009 9:57 PM
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Mr. Silverman's problem is that he is obviously a Democrat and, as any Republican knows, God doesn't answer the prayers of Democrats.
God does, however, answer the prayers of Republicans. For example, when our party was in disarray after the recent elections, we prayed for a Savior and He sent us Sarah Palin - proving that not only does God answer Republicans' prayers but he does so with a wicked sense of humor.
Posted by: helgison | August 11, 2009 9:00 PM
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I agree with Herb in that prayers to a non existent god can only benefit the person praying. I find it difficult that anyone can continue to believe in a god that intervenes in daily affairs with the state of the world as it is. Such a god could not be benevolent and, if benevolent, must not be particularly powerful. The only philosophically consistent discussion of prayer that I have encountered is in Harold Kushner's "Why Bad Things Happen to Good People." Kushner's god cannot intervene and is not all powerful nor omniscient. While I still don't believe in Kushner's god, at least his discourse makes sense.
Posted by: jonesm2 | August 11, 2009 8:25 PM
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Herb has pointed out that inner peace is the only possible outcome to prayer, and that not likely. One might want the easy answer that people are magic and can solve problems by kneeling in a corner. The world has some real problems, and I hope those seeing this will temper their prayerful contemplation with some personal action.
Posted by: MAAF | August 11, 2009 8:22 PM
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If one prays for mental peace she/he may eventually find peace. If one prays for love, he/she may get love. But if one prays for social peace, justice, lack of violence, equality, freedom, they may be wasting their time.
It seems as god responds to the individual on individual demands. Social organization is purely manmade. If some are praying on a wall and expect a response, a silly person like myself would ask what's behind the wall, and why is that wall there to begin with? What is it separating?
You can not petition the law with prayer!
Posted by: ZeroTolerance | August 11, 2009 6:02 PM
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Whether one uses his or her hands to help or to ask for help, the only help to be had is here on Earth. The problems mankind faces today will be solved only by social evolution beyond the warring, competitive tribes of the past.
If there were a God, would he Tweet? or text? or IM? I think he'd pray. As my grandmother said, "We need God's prayers, more than he needs ours."
Posted by: MyraRubinstein | August 11, 2009 5:25 PM
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I enjoy Herb's sense of humor; however, I would not want to deny, or make fun of, any actual man who prays at the wall. I have come to understand how important some folks' fantasies are to their ability to cope with life's difficulties, and do not think anything is accomplished by trying to take this away from them. Of course, if one such person asks me for my opinion, I would share it with them as gently as possible, and I know Herb to be a person who would do the same.
All else said, I agree with Herb's point of view.
Frank Hay
Charleston, SC
Posted by: fhay26 | August 11, 2009 4:53 PM
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Had to laugh out loud at the image of God slapping his forehead.
Posted by: maryellensikes | August 11, 2009 4:38 PM
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Does God tweet? Herb, you had me rolling on the floor. Now that's one question that hasn't--until now--crossed (excuse the pun) my mind.
And the Western Wall is also known as the Wailing Wall for good reason: Nothing comes of your cries for help unless you do what Ingersoll said, as you quoted him.
From God tweets to beat feets, as I paraphrase what a college dormmate used to say. If all the religious would do what Ingersoll said, would we need the wailing wall? Not likely. Nor would we need gods or religion.
Tom Melchiorre, Editor, Secular Nation Magazine
Posted by: TomMelchiorre | August 11, 2009 4:37 PM
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of course material determinism has the same problem. Why make choices of doing anything, why take responsibility for anything. We are all but mathematical sums of a series of inputs in part derived from genetic evolutionary processes, in part due to social and psychological phenomenon beyond our control, and lastly by random variation in electrochemical fluxes in our brains. None of which allow us free choice. Thus the communist defense attorney may argue that all choices are predetermined, there is no self, and thus all constructs of crimes, justice, and choice is irrelevant. (absent due to non-existent moral agency)
Ah but he feels better when running. Perhaps there is more to being than just a series of summations. Perhaps an atheism rises out of the cultural darkness created by an elementary spiritual church with more power than depth. Thus the atheist rejects a false notion of god, but fails to twitter the idea of a god greater than the one s/he has heard of.
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