Janet Edwards
Co-Moderator of More Light Presbyterians

Janet Edwards

Rev. Dr. Edwards is a Presbyterian minister living in Pittsburgh. She currently serves as co-Moderator of More Light Presbyterians.

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Church could be a home for the holidays

Right now, families all over the country are reuniting with each other for the Christmas season. This cheery emphasis in our culture on being "home for the holidays" is a great and heartwarming tradition.

However, it can also be a brutal reminder for those who, for whatever reason, have no home to go to at this time of year. It's exactly the situation that many lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth are facing as you read this. In fact, of all the homeless youth in America, up to 40-percent of them are LGBT.

The days of being kicked out for becoming a pregnant teen have been overshadowed by being kicked out for coming out as LGBT. The difference is, these LGBT teens often lack the extended family or friendly neighbors willing to take them in.

It may be hard to wrap your heart around, but try to imagine facing your first Christmas after being kicked out of your home. What it must feel like to be ostracized from the family traditions that you grew up with and far from the Christmas morning embrace of your mother or father or siblings. The only gift you get this year is despair.

As a mother, I yearn with my whole heart to give youth like this a home. And as a Christian, my hope is that churches around the country would at the least be providing a spiritual home in their time of need. Unfortunately, too often churches join in the shunning that leaves these children of God without shelter and without faith. A possible lifeline of hope -- what we all expect the church to be -- isn't there for these LGBT youth.

Judy Shepard, whose son Matthew was brutally murdered for being gay, once said: "Church hurt is the worst hurt." I couldn't agree more.

However, there are churches that read Scripture and live as disciples of Christ in a different way -- a way that inspires us to embrace the homeless so that we can create a home together. These welcoming churches live the Christmas story with arms outstretched to all those without a home, especially LGBT youth.

After all, while we tend to pretty up the stable in our Christmas carols and cards, Mary and Joseph were homeless on Christmas Eve and were still homeless with a child in arms as they fled Bethlehem into Egypt. Homeless was Jesus' state at the start.

And Jesus remembered the despair of the homeless when he came of age and entered into His ministry. Both Matthew and Luke recorded Jesus' wistful comment on his situation: "Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man has nowhere to lay his head." (Matthew 8:20, Luke 9:58)

It makes sense that Jesus drew to himself the outcasts of his day -- those who were pushed to the edges of that community, just as LGBT people are so often in our times.

It fills me with hope that the Christmas Story does inspire some churches to offer a loving, warm, safe community for LGBT people and especially LGBT youth. These faith families see Christ in the eyes of those without a home, particularly during the holidays.

However, for a family with two moms or two dads, the trip to a midnight service on a Christmas Eve isn't as simple as going to the nearest church. They won't be assured of a gracious embrace when they walk in the door. And while they may not be "turned away" in the direct sense, they are as vulnerable as Mary and Joseph were when they entered Bethlehem with Mary great with child.

LGBT faithful who seek to worship Emmanuel, God with us, need to watch for special signs of the Love that comes down at Christmas. They need to seek out the rainbow flag flying over the door, reminding us of another unconditional sign of God's love for all in Scripture -- the rainbow promise to Noah never to destroy the earth by water again (Genesis 9:11-12). And there are these churches now, in every denomination, that live the Christmas story by being clear and courageous in their embrace of LGBT people.

Christmas is an annual renewal of the proclamation of the angels to the shepherds abiding in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night: "Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will toward all (Luke 2:14)."

Hope in this promise belongs to us all, but especially to the children with no home this holy night. The Christmas promise will be better fulfilled in this world when the whole church truly embraces the Lord's message of love and inclusion and refuses to turn away any who come to God's house.

By Janet Edwards  |  December 20, 2010; 2:09 PM ET Save & Share:  Send E-mail   Facebook   Twitter   Digg   Yahoo Buzz   Del.icio.us   StumbleUpon   Technorati  
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In fact, of all the homeless youth in America, up to 40-percent of them are LGBT.

Whatever else she says, whether I agree with it or not, the above assertion is pure unadulterated BS.

Spend a little time on the streets, old lady. I don't mean going down to the wrong side of town handing out bibles and condoms, I mean living under freeway bridges, warming yourself over a trash fire, picking through the ashtrays outside a hospital for cigarette butts or dumpster diving behind the KFC for some old greasy chicken - hoping the people working there didn't spill bleach on it to drive you off.

40% of young people on the street are gay, right.

Posted by: eezmamata | December 21, 2010 7:04 PM
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lfivepoints69yahoocom : funny that scripture doesnt say "neither sodomite/homosexual" Its one wrong thing to take a scripture out of context, its another entirely off base manner to insert references that arent there to back your misguided beliefs.There is nothing wrong with fundamentals especially when they keep "christians" from reverting to moral relativism and revising the Holy Scirptures to fit their beliefs every decade or two.

Posted by: detroitblkmale30 | December 21, 2010 2:28 PM
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lfivepoints69yahoocom : funny that scripture doesnt say "neither sodomite/homosexual" Its one wrong thing to take a scripture out of context, its another entirely off base manner to insert references that arent there to back your misguided beliefs.There is nothing wrong with fundamentals especially when they keep "christians" from reverting to moral relativism and revising the Holy Scirptures to fit their beliefs every decade or two.

Posted by: detroitblkmale30 | December 21, 2010 2:26 PM
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@LFIVEPOINTS69YAHOOCOM - I will pray that Satan release you and the scales be removed from your eyes.

Posted by: thebump | December 21, 2010 8:49 AM
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Well said. As the Bible says, 'there is neither male nor female, there is not Jew or Greek, there is no long slave or free, we are all one in Christ.' To God, same-sex and different-sex marriage are exactly the same and love is the greatest affirmation and command of Christ; love is not sinful. That is the good news that Christ proclaimed. For pseudo-Christian fundamentalists who claim that Jesus only blesses right-handed people, heterosexuals, whites, or men, it is clear that they do not have a relationship with Christ. Indeed, a gay man who denies God's divine plan for him to fall in love with and marry a man is creating a sin by not willingly being the gay man he was created to be. As most gay Christians will tell you, their spouse is the most important person in their lives after Jesus (and often tied with their children). God bless.

Posted by: lfivepoints69yahoocom | December 21, 2010 1:57 AM
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Well said. As the Bible says, 'there is neither male nor female, there is not Jew or Greek, there is no long slave or free, we are all one in Christ.' To God, same-sex and different-sex marriage are exactly the same and love is the greatest affirmation and command of Christ; love is not sinful. That is the good news that Christ proclaimed. For pseudo-Christian fundamentalists who claim that Jesus only blesses right-handed people, heterosexuals, whites, or men, it is clear that they do not have a relationship with Christ. Indeed, a gay man who denies God's divine plan for him to fall in love with and marry a man is creating a sin by not willingly being the gay man he was created to be. As most gay Christians will tell you, their spouse is the most important person in their lives after Jesus (and often tied with their children). God bless.

Posted by: lfivepoints69yahoocom | December 21, 2010 1:56 AM
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Well said. As the Bible says, 'there is neither male nor female, there is not Jew or Greek, there is no long slave or free, we are all one in Christ.' To God, same-sex and different-sex marriage are exactly the same and love is the greatest affirmation and command of Christ; love is not sinful. That is the good news that Christ proclaimed. For pseudo-Christian fundamentalists who claim that Jesus only blesses right-handed people, heterosexuals, whites, or men, it is clear that they do not have a relationship with Christ. Indeed, a gay man who denies God's divine plan for him to fall in love with and marry a man is creating a sin by not willingly being the gay man he was created to be. As most gay Christians will tell you, their spouse is the most important person in their lives after Jesus (and often tied with their children). God bless.

Posted by: lfivepoints69yahoocom | December 21, 2010 1:55 AM
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well said. I think though the essence of what she is saying bump is as so many christian proponents of LGBT mistakenly say is, we should give them Christianity "Lite". Give them all of the love of Christianity with none of the responsibility or accountability of his Word. I think homelessness is wrong no matter what one's sexual preference is.Churches should do all they can in love to minister to those who need a place to sleep or stay. The overwhelming bulk of churches however should not however be "compassioned" into preaching or teaching a lifestyle that is contrary to their beliefs.Jesus had compassion on those in need, even when they were living in sin, but did not condone it.The same can be done here. There is not place for hate speech and rude behavior, but principals should still be upheld. Churches can be hospitable to all afterall if churches can welcome in as guests non-believers or others in need they can welcome at least for the provision of shelter and a warm meal the LGBT community.It is hypocritcal to have programs for drug users, alcoholics, prostitutes or people in poverty or in need and turn a cold shoulder to the LGBT community for shelter, food and clothes, and toys. That doesnt however mean these churches should then change their belief structure. At the end of the day they still are who they are, they are just open to serve those in needs.

Posted by: detroitblkmale30 | December 20, 2010 8:54 PM
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While we certainly have to meet people where they are, in the final analysis the greatest act of love is to witness to the truth. God loves us as we are... but too much to let us stay that way.

When you cut through the authoress's fatuous political claptrap, her position is that we should lie to people — and thereby endanger their souls — by pretending that sin is not sin. There's nothing remotely charitable about that.

Posted by: thebump | December 20, 2010 4:51 PM
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